They touch each other constantly, even sexually often, as a way to maintain social stability. It doesn’t matter if you are talking about a platonic friendship or a love interest, people touch either when they are interested in being around one another. MORE: 11 Definite Signs He Doesn’t Like You 6. If you say, for instance, “I just had the most amazing day!” And all they respond with is, “that’s nice,” then it’s time to move on to someone who will ask instead, “that’s amazing what happened?!” If you find that your conversations with someone are clipped or cut short because they suddenly need to take another call or have other priorities, and they just don’t want to extend the conversation, then they may not be interested in maintaining a friendship with you. They will also ask about you, your day, or things you are interested in. If someone is excited to talk to you, they won’t give you one syllable answers to questions. Those neurons reflect what our eyes are taking in and if we like someone, are attracted to them or just enjoy being around them, then we’ll make eye contact. This might be because there are more neurons dedicated to our eyes than any of the other four senses. It allows you to focus your attention on people who will love you back. Having this clarity about how someone feels is a gift.

These things reveal someone’s true feelings for you, even if they are “too polite” to tell you to your face that they just aren’t interested in developing a closer relationship with you.

Check their sincerity with the following tips. In a world where people are trained to be polite, never speak their truth, and always be smiling even when they don’t necessarily want to, it can get confusing to determine if someone wants to be around you or not. You don’t need to be paranoid about asking yourself these questions (being paranoid will hurt you) but if you have a niggling feeling that someone is hanging out with you for the wrong reasons, or that they don’t value your friendship as much as you do, these tips can help you know for sure. MORE: 10 Guaranteed Signs He Doesn’t Like You How do you know if someone is keen on spending time with you, or they are just doing it due to habit, circumstance, or duty? You may already suspect that someone isn’t jiving with you, but you can pick up on some subtle cues to know for sure.

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